Thought Pad

Wrong People

When people are being good to you, you can never imagine yourself to be the wrong person in their life. It is when those people realize they can have a life without you, do they say something which makes you realize how much precious time of theirs have you wasted by being a part of their life.

Forgiving

It becomes easier to forgive someone when you give up having expectations from them.

Being Good

There would be trying times in your life when you are tempted to quit being good to someone specific or in general. Those are the times when despite all the negativities, you must convince yourself to continue being good.

Taken For Granted

People, especially close ones, take you for granted because they feel they have the right over you as you are close to their heart. They know that you would understand. If you feel your presence in their life is not highlighted, instead of being disappointed be happy that they trust you enough to take your presence casually, just like normal breathing, without taking extra effort. Next time you feel frustrated or disappointed on being taken for granted, remind yourself that it is your closeness to their heart that makes them do it and you will find your own heart filling with love for them.

Small Things

There are moments when you sit still, alone, sad and depressed. Then, something happens and you smile. It can be something happening around you or just a memory. There are some things, however small they might be, that make you forget the hardships of life and make you smile, give you strength to carry on. Always cherish those small things. Life is not always sunshine, there are storms and trying times. These little things are your life support system. Preserve them well.

Power of Thoughts

Different people want different things. What you want might not be what someone else wants. In case of conflicting viewpoints of the same matter, the end result would always depend on whose thoughts are more powerful.

Hints

The subtle hints ignored in the past have their own way to slap themselves on your face when the time comes.

Anger

You have the entire right to be angry but none at all to fuel someone else's anger

Storm

The calmest person is the one who usually hides the wildest storm within.

Communication

Communication is a lot better than assumptions & doubts but on the other hand; no communication is better than mis-communication.

Being strong

Sometimes being strong has its drawbacks. Everyone assumes you can handle tough situations but no one thinks that there are times when even the toughest have nervous breakdowns.

Happy Memories

We all should have at least one happy memory, which is strong enough to make us smile despite all the odds. However depressed and/or frustrated we are, this memory should be able to not only neutralize the negativity but add positivity to our outlook towards life.

Hate me?

If you hate me for being the good person that I am; I can only laugh on you for being the stupid person that you are!

Life - It can be easy, if we allow it to be.

Breathe - Rhythmically and deep
Close your eyes - Erase out the world
Listen - The minute sounds of nature.
Smile - Brighten your soul
 And, then you will find - Not a single frown to be dealt with.
Life - It can be easy, if we allow it to be.

Letting go

Sometimes, simply letting it go is not sufficient. You have to make sure that it does not return.

Being Good

Sometimes you just get tired of being good. The problem, though, is that not being good becomes difficult for you and even hurts you, perhaps more than the person to whom you are 'not being good'

Innocence

What is innocence for you is stupidity for someone else

Dealing with situations

We all have our own ways of dealing with a situation not directly affecting us, but indirectly, yes. Some deal with it selfishly, putting their priorities and ease first. There are very few people who would plunge into a situation head-on without caring about their priorities and ease. A few are so selfish that they simply take a detour from the situation.

Fire

Getting too involved emotionally with anyone is like going dangerously close to fire. It's ought to burn, you cannot complain.

Identity

Never love someone so much as to become an inseparable part of that person losing your identity. Love the person as you instead of becoming the you they want to love.