Thought Pad
Because ... I Think!
Wrong People
When people are being good to you, you can never imagine yourself to be the wrong person in their life. It is when those people realize they can have a life without you, do they say something which makes you realize how much precious time of theirs have you wasted by being a part of their life.
Being Good
There would be trying times in your life when you are tempted to quit being good to someone specific or in general. Those are the times when despite all the negativities, you must convince yourself to continue being good.
Taken For Granted
People, especially close ones, take you for granted because they feel they have the right over you as you are close to their heart. They know that you would understand. If you feel your presence in their life is not highlighted, instead of being disappointed be happy that they trust you enough to take your presence casually, just like normal breathing, without taking extra effort.
Next time you feel frustrated or disappointed on being taken for granted, remind yourself that it is your closeness to their heart that makes them do it and you will find your own heart filling with love for them.
Small Things
There are moments when you sit still, alone, sad and depressed. Then, something happens and you smile. It can be something happening around you or just a memory. There are some things, however small they might be, that make you forget the hardships of life and make you smile, give you strength to carry on. Always cherish those small things. Life is not always sunshine, there are storms and trying times. These little things are your life support system. Preserve them well.
Power of Thoughts
Different people want different things. What you want might not be what someone else wants. In case of conflicting viewpoints of the same matter, the end result would always depend on whose thoughts are more powerful.
Communication
Communication is a lot better than assumptions & doubts but on the other hand; no communication is better than mis-communication.
Being strong
Sometimes being strong has its drawbacks. Everyone assumes you can handle tough situations but no one thinks that there are times when even the toughest have nervous breakdowns.
Happy Memories
We all should have at least one happy memory, which is strong enough to make us smile despite all the odds. However depressed and/or frustrated we are, this memory should be able to not only neutralize the negativity but add positivity to our outlook towards life.
Life - It can be easy, if we allow it to be.
Breathe -
Rhythmically and deep
Close your eyes - Erase out the world
Listen - The minute sounds of nature.
Smile - Brighten your soul
And, then you will find - Not a single frown to be dealt with.
Life - It can be easy, if we allow it to be.
Close your eyes - Erase out the world
Listen - The minute sounds of nature.
Smile - Brighten your soul
And, then you will find - Not a single frown to be dealt with.
Life - It can be easy, if we allow it to be.
Letting go
Sometimes, simply letting it go is not sufficient. You have to make sure that it does not return.
Being Good
Sometimes you just get tired of being good. The problem, though, is that not being good becomes difficult for you and even hurts you, perhaps more than the person to whom you are 'not being good'
Dealing with situations
We all have our own ways of dealing with a situation not directly affecting us, but indirectly, yes. Some deal with it selfishly, putting their priorities and ease first. There are very few people who would plunge into a situation head-on without caring about their priorities and ease. A few are so selfish that they simply take a detour from the situation.
